• सुमंगल विचार

• तुम अपने जीवन को इतना अच्छा रखो की कोई तुम्हारी  निंदा करे फिर भी दुनिया उस को सच न माने |                               
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• प्रेम सबसे करो ,विश्वास थोड़ो से करो ,और हानि किसी का भी न करो |
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• अपने संतान को ठीक रखना चाहते हो इसलिए  अपने को ठीक रखो |
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• न नर्म बनो की निचोड़े  जाओ ,न इतने सख्त बनो कि तोडे जाओ |
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• मानव तू सैकडों हाथों से कमा ,और हजारों हाथों से दान दे |
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•  जीवन चलाने (run) और बर्बाद (ruin ) में  मात्र "I" का अंतर है अतः मैं अर्थात अभिमान को जीवन से हटाओ |
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• अपना सुधर जीवन की सबसे बड़ी  सेवा है |
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• संसार को बदलने से अच्छा है की खुद को बदलो |
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• भोजन के लिए मत जियो बल्कि जीने के लिए भोजन करो |
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• नीयत तेरी अच्छी है तब किस्मत तेरी दासी है , नज़र तेरी अच्छी है तब घर में मथुरा कशी है |

HANDLING ANGER

Once a sadhu – a wandering mendicant, was passing through a village, when he received a complaint from the villagers about a cobra that was playing havoc with their lives. The sadhu was known to have the power to communicate with animals, so they begged him to convince the cobra to spare the villagers. So the sadhu spoke to the cobra, and the cobra promised not to bite any of the villagers anymore.

A few months later, the sadhu was passing through the same village when he came upon the cobra, badly bruised and almost dead. "What happened to you? Why are you hurt?" Asked the sadhu. The cobra cried, "O sadhu! It is you who made me promise never to bite the villagers! I have kept my promise to this day. But the villagers, who were earlier in fear of me, took my mildness to be my weakness. Seeing that I don't bite, they started torturing me everyday. See what a state I have been reduced to!"

The sadhu replied, "My poor foolish friend! I only asked you not to bite the people. Did I ask you not to hiss at them?"
You need to use anger in the right way in the right quantities. Anger is a tremendous energy if we know how to use it rightly.

Knowledge about anger reduces anger.

Keep anger in your pocket, take it out when necessary, and then put it away , be angry with an incident or situation not with a person. Do not take position against person but take it against the incident or situation.

अपराध  करने वाले से ज्यादा अपराधी , अपराध सहने वाला होता है 

QUALITIES OF A ROLE MODEL

Every person in some way or the other is a Role model – a leader at work for his team members , parents for their children etc.

To be a good role model one should have ability to inspire others to follow their example, willingly and cheerfully. A good role model will both inspire confidence and give a strong example of what we should aim for. The role models should :-

1. Lead by example: Do what you preach or only preach what you follow. 

 मानव  उपदेश  सुनते  हैं  टन  भर  , देते  हैं  मन भर   और  ग्रहण  करते  हैं  कण  भर 

2. Humility:  People will be much more willing to follow a person who embodies humility.
 3. Appreciate Others: If people get appreciation then it will definitely encourage them to continue doing the right thing. At the same time, our appreciation should be sincere and not flattery.
 4. Avoid arguments: If people criticize your approach, often the best thing to do is not get involved in arguments. You can listen to their criticism politely and thank them for their concern, but often the best approach is just to focus on the new approach; look forward and don't feel the need to defend yourself.
 5. Listen to others: If you listen to others, they will definitely appreciate it. Often you may find that your workers have good ideas that you can incorporate.
 6. Admit your mistakes and shortcomings.

 7. Love your team members.